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                The 
                  Urban Dharma Newsletter... December 31, 2002 
                
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                In 
                  This Issue: 
                
                1. 
                  Meditation Basics ...http://www.buddhamind.info/ 
                  2. 
                  Meditation on the Breath ...http://www.buddhamind.info/ 
                  3. Loving-Kindness Meditation ...http://www.buddhamind.info/ 
                  4. A Loving Kindness Meditation ...from Kusala's Morning 
                  Practice 
                  3. Book Review: Pay Attention, for Goodness' 
                  Sake: Practicing the Perfections of the Heart-The Buddhist Path 
                  of Kindness ...by Sylvia, Ph.D. 
                  Boorstein 
                  4. Temple/Center of the Week: The Birmingham 
                  Buddhist Vihara 
                
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                1. 
                  Meditation Basics ...http://www.buddhamind.info/ 
                
                * 
                  http://www.buddhamind.info/leftside/lifestyl/medi/breath.htm 
                
                This 
                  item tries to cover the basic principles that apply to meditation 
                  - regardless of what kind of meditation or what technique you 
                  use. 
                
                • 
                  The field of cultivation is the mind - this is where the work 
                  takes place; and very rarely does it not involve quite a bit 
                  of work. 
                
                • 
                  The fruits of cultivation are peace and wisdom. 
                
                Beyond 
                  field and fruit - both of these being subject to the three conditions 
                  - lies nibbana, the unconditioned. This is the ultimate goal 
                  of all Buddhist aspirations. 
                
                What 
                  to do with the mind? - assuming you see the need to do something 
                
                Contemplate 
                  the conditioned nature of the mind. 
                
                When 
                  we are born, as we grow up as children, all through our lives, 
                  we are exposed to a wide range of sensory experience. Much of 
                  what we are today is the result of that exposure. If, for example, 
                  you were plump as a child and your parents and family members 
                  didn't like that and were always calling you fatty, and lard 
                  face, and lump, and ... all those unkind things - then it is 
                  understandable that in later life you might have a 'complex' 
                  about your body weight or shape. You may become anorexic? This 
                  is probably nothing new to you and is pretty obvious - the psychology 
                  principle that is, not the anorexia. 
                
                • 
                  Consider a vessel of water as an analogy of the mind. If you 
                  pour red powder into the water then surely the water will turn 
                  red. The more powder you pour in the more red the water will 
                  become. If you only pour in a little bit of powder then the 
                  water will only be changed a little. The water is the mind, 
                  the vessel is the body, the vessel opening is the sense door 
                  and the powder is sense experience. 
                
                What 
                  we end up with after a few years of this is a mind that is coloured. 
                
                Why 
                  do I speak with this kind of accent? Because those particular 
                  coloured sounds were poured in my ears for many years. Very 
                  many of our likes and dislikes, our views and our opinions are 
                  inherited, absorbed. This is the process of conditioning and 
                  much of it takes place when we are quite young. We do change 
                  and form semi-independent views but the new is usually relative 
                  to the old. There is nothing good or bad about it but it is 
                  important to appreciate the relative nature of our conditioned 
                  mind. Also to appreciate that this is going on all the time, 
                  right now. If you spend time in a peaceful environment this 
                  often conditions a peaceful feeling. If you spend time in a 
                  violent environment this can condition fear, aversion, anger, 
                  etc.  
                
                There 
                  is a process of association with most situations. You hear a 
                  bell, it reminds you of school, which reminds you of homework, 
                  which makes you feel unpleasant, when you are unhappy you often 
                  eat something: bell rings = you eat. What is vitally important 
                  here is to see that we are not just victims of this - we can 
                  observe the process. This is the key to freedom. 
                
                There 
                  is the object of sense (the bell) there is the sense organ (the 
                  ear) there is contact between the two = consciousness. Awareness 
                  can be present during all of this - we don't have to do the 
                  eating bit. This can be difficult as the links in this chain 
                  are often so close together it is hard to see them. 
                
                Meditation 
                  is a way of strengthening our ability to be aware, and to reflect 
                  on this process and our relationship with it. A point to consider 
                  here is: 'the process and our relationship with it'. This proposes 
                  that the process is not me - too big to discuss here. Nevertheless 
                  it is apparent to most that the process can be witnessed to. 
                  I can be aware of hearing the bell, aware of the unpleasant 
                  feeling as it arises and the inclination to eat. Usually it 
                  all happens so quickly that it just melts into the blur that 
                  can be our lives and no sense of one thing relating to another 
                  is particularly obvious. This brings us to the first stage of 
                  meditation - slowing down. 
                Whatever 
                  means you use to slow down is not so important - what matters 
                  is that you do. If you can see that wisdom is about understanding 
                  the true nature of things then consider how you come to an understanding 
                  of anything: by spending time with it, by studying it. 
                
                • 
                  Consider a work desk as an analogy of the mind. If it's anything 
                  like mine there is stuff all over the place. You want to know 
                  what a ball pen is and how it is put together. If you open it 
                  up on the desk you run the risk of not noticing some pieces 
                  as you pull it apart and they will get lost or you won't know 
                  where they came from. Clear a nice big space on the desk and 
                  lay out the pieces as you slowly and carefully take them out 
                  of the pen. It is then much easier to examine each piece and 
                  see how it relates to all the other pieces.  
                
                So 
                  too with the mind. Usually it is full of clutter. We need to 
                  clear a space. This is done by practicing samatha meditation 
                  - by developing some form of concentration technique. Instead 
                  of allowing the mind to look here, listen to this, taste that, 
                  etc - which is collecting a lot of stuff, clutter - we bring 
                  the mind to focus on one (simple) thing. 
                
                Once 
                  there is a degree of space, of calm in the mind then we can 
                  clearly see what is in that space. What we see we can observe, 
                  and through that observation we can come to understand, we can 
                  have an insight into the nature of that thing; and 'thing' can 
                  cover a lot of areas - emotional, perceptual, relational, physical. 
                  This is vipassana meditation - the arising of insight. 
                   
                   
                   
                
                
                
                2. 
                  Meditation on the Breath ...http://www.buddhamind.info/ 
                
                * 
                  http://www.buddhamind.info/leftside/lifestyl/medi/breath.htm 
                
                Breathing 
                  is something that we all do. For human beings it is a primary 
                  sign of life. We all have a breath so as an object of meditation 
                  it is very useful. The curious thing is that most people don't 
                  take that much notice or care about their breath. It really 
                  only gets any attention when there is either too much - and 
                  you are puffing and blowing - or not enough - and you are suffocating. 
                  It is important to appreciate that breath meditation is not 
                  the same as pranayama as in various yoga exercises; it is the 
                  mind that is being developed.  
                
                The 
                  classic teaching the Buddha gave on breath meditation is the 
                  Anapanasati Sutta. It outlines in considerable detail the various 
                  stages and levels of this practice. 
                
                Using 
                  the breath: 
                
                Why? 
                
                Assuming 
                  you see the value in taking up a specific object for developing 
                  concentration, the breath has many things to recommend itself 
                  as the object of choice. 
                
                1 
                  - it is portable. Every where you go you have it with you. No 
                  need to worry about forgetting your worry beads. 
                2 
                  - it comes free with every body. No need to buy any special 
                  equipment. 
                3 
                  - it is complete in and of itself. No need for any upgrades 
                  or add-ons. 
                4 
                  - it is 100% natural - they don't come more organic than this. 
                5 
                  - it is effortless. The body knows how to breathe without you 
                  needing to do anything, You just sit back and let it do all 
                  the work - while you just watch. 
                6 
                  - it is a connection with a vital life force. 
                7- 
                  it is calming. There is a simple, natural rhythm the breath 
                  follows and following that leads one to peace. 
                
                How? 
                
                The 
                  principles discussed in 'samatha' apply here. 
                
                Basically, 
                  we take up an object - in this case the breath - and hold it 
                  with the mind for an extended period. This is not always so 
                  easy as the mind is used to jumping about from object to object. 
                  Sustained attention on the breath is a training in stillness; 
                  the ability to be content with little and to maintain attention. 
                  There are various ways the breath can be used. Here is one possible 
                  system using eight steps. It gets a bit cosmic toward the end 
                  but you will get the general idea. 
                1 
                  - Counting: useful for those who have never worked with 
                  the breath much before. 
                
                Sit 
                  down for meditation and fix your attention on the breath at 
                  that point where you most easily notice it. Say, at the belly*. 
                  If the breath is not clearly seen try a few extended breaths 
                  - deeply in, and deeply out - so as to get a good feel of the 
                  breath. You could even put your hand on your belly to assist 
                  this. Very consciously watch the sequence of in-and-out breaths. 
                  Note the breath as it enters, and note the breath as it leaves, 
                  watching the movement of the body - the rise and fall of the 
                  abdomen. When you have established your awareness of the breath, 
                  begin counting each breath. This can be done in several ways. 
                  Try just counting on the in-breaths; up to ten. Then start again 
                  at one. This is repeated over and over from one to ten. The 
                  counting provides a support for the mind; something a little 
                  more tangible to hold. If you aren't sure how far you have counted 
                  then you know that your mind has wandered; start the counting 
                  over again. Meditation is not about getting anything - and particularly, 
                  you don't have to get the breath (unless you are dead). Just 
                  relax - and watch the show. Do this for about 10 to 30 minutes 
                  at one sitting; twice a day for several weeks. What is the result? 
                
                2 
                  - Following: used after the mind has been calmed somewhat 
                  by using counting. 
                
                When 
                  the mind is able to stay with the in-breathing and out-breathing, 
                  the counting can be stopped and replaced by just mentally following 
                  the course of the breath. Note the beginning of an in-breath 
                  -- hold your attention at the belly and observe the progress 
                  of the in-breath -- note the end of the in-breath -- notice 
                  the space, or pause at the end of the in-breath -- note the 
                  beginning of the out-breath. There is no thought involved here 
                  it is merely paying attention to the physical phenomenon of 
                  breathing - in detail. Do this for 30 to 60 minutes; twice a 
                  day for several months. 
                
                3 
                  - Contact and: 4 - Fixing: 
                
                These 
                  two aspects of the practice indicate the development of stronger 
                  concentration. When mindfulness of breathing is well extablished, 
                  the breath becomes more and more subtle - serene and tranquil. 
                  The body becomes calm and ceases to feel fatigue. Because the 
                  mind and body are so tranquil the breath becomes more and more 
                  subtle until it seems that it has ceased. This can be slightly 
                  alarming and one thinks the breathing has stopped altogether, 
                  but it is not so. It continues, but in a very delicate and subtle 
                  form. No matter how subtle it becomes, one must still maintain 
                  mindfulness of the contact of the breath in the body, without 
                  losing track of it. The mind is at this point free from the 
                  five hindrances - sensual desire, anger, drowsiness, restlessness 
                  and doubt. One is calm and joyful. Various signs may appear 
                  in the mind - pay them no heed. As concentration is further 
                  developed four stages of absorption (jhana) can be attained. 
                  These stages of deep concentration are called "fixing". 
                   
                
                5 
                  - Observing - 6: Turning Away - 7: Purification - 8: Retrospection: 
                
                A 
                  person who has attained the four absorptions should not stop 
                  there but should go on to develop insight meditation (vipassana). 
                  The stages of insight are called "observing". When 
                  insight reaches its climax, the meditator attains the supramundane 
                  paths. Because these paths turn away the fetters that bind one 
                  to the cycle of birth and death, they are called "turning 
                  away". The paths are followed by their respective fruitions; 
                  this stage is called "purification" because one has 
                  been cleansed of defilements. Thereafter one realizes the final 
                  stage, reviewing knowledge, called "retrospection" 
                  because one looks back upon one's entire path of progress and 
                  one's attainments. This is a brief overview of the main stages 
                  along the path to Nibbana, based on the meditation of anapana 
                  sati.  
                
                * 
                  There are various theories about where you focus attention. 
                  One common alternative to the belly is the tip of the nose. 
                  My feeling is that the nose can be a bit 'head' centred and 
                  too close to thought. The belly has a much more 'grounding' 
                  aspect to it, more closely in touch with emotions and internal 
                  energies generally. Do experiment. 
                On 
                  the Buddhist path a fundamental theme is impermanence. You can 
                  use the breath as a way to gain insight into this truth. 
                
                When 
                  you are 'following' the breath - as above - pay close attention 
                  to the end points of each phase. The end of the in-breath, the 
                  end of the space between in and out breaths, the end of the 
                  out-breath. It is obvious, but do reflect on the impermanence 
                  of the breath. We may prefer the in-breath to the out-breath 
                  but it is impossible to keep either - they must die so that 
                  life can continue. So it is with ALL things. The old must give 
                  way to the new. This is natures way. Do this as a meditation. 
                  Let go of each breath as if it was your last. Contemplate that 
                  eventually this will be so. Let go, relax. Life is vital, alive, 
                  NOW - with each breath. 
                
                Because 
                  the breath is so connected with our life it is with us everywhere 
                  we go. 
                
                In 
                  relation to meditation this means that once we have developed 
                  anapanasati a bit, and have a good sense of the breath, we can 
                  turn to this practise at any time. Because the association with 
                  the breath is predominantly a peaceful one you can maintain 
                  this relationship in all postures at all times. Say you are 
                  in a meeting and things aren't going so well - you can turn 
                  to the breath - perhaps take a couple of extended ones - and 
                  there you are - in touch with your 'friend' - that symbol of 
                  calm and peace. Make your offering to the meeting (life in general) 
                  from this space. 
                
                The 
                  breath is also useful in this way as it acts as a very good 
                  indicator of our emotions. This is particularly helpful with 
                  regard to negative emotions. When we are in states of anger, 
                  fear, anxiety, stress, etc. the quality of the breath is usually 
                  far from peaceful. If we have put effort into establishing a 
                  relationship with the breath - when it is peaceful and calm 
                  - then the early signs of these emotions are easily noticed 
                  by contrast, and the breath can either be consciously stablilised 
                  (physically) or 'reminded' of how it can easily be peaceful 
                  and calm. The ease of both of these methods is relative to how 
                  well you have established that point of peace and calm in relation 
                  to the breath; how easy can you 'be with' the breath in that 
                  way? 
                
                Cleansing: 
                
                • 
                  Another way the breath can be used in mediation is as a simile 
                  for cleansing or purification. (This has some similarities to 
                  a metta meditation.) Instead of focussing on the belly one brings 
                  the attention to the area around the heart and imagines that 
                  the air is coming in and out through the heart centre; with 
                  the heart being the seat of emotion. To begin with, contemplate 
                  the physical nature of the air. The in-breath is bringing fresh 
                  air into the body. This is new life; vitalising all aspects 
                  of the body with this new, clean and pure air. Feel it coursing 
                  through the body, bringing new energy and strength. With the 
                  out-breath visualise the flow of impure, old and stale air leaving 
                  the body. This is no longer needed - you can let this discharge 
                  from inside you. 
                
                • 
                  Do this for a good while. On the in-breath, allow the arising 
                  of health and wellbeing. On the out-breath, feel the relief 
                  of letting go, the release of impurities from your body. 
                
                • 
                  Transfer the attention from the physical to the emotional. Keep 
                  the attention on the flow of the breath through the heart. On 
                  the in-breath see it as a new arising, a new beginning, a fresh 
                  start. It comes with goodness, undamaged, pure, without any 
                  adgenda, unburdened. On the out-breath see it as the letting 
                  go or the release of all your old unwanted emotional 'baggage'. 
                  Allow all the worries, the uncertainties, the fears, the stress 
                  - allow it all to just flow out with that old, used air. You 
                  don't need it. 
                
                • 
                  You can use associated words. On the in-breath: may I be well, 
                  may I be happy, my life is blessed, every breath is a new chance. 
                  On the out-breath: Relax, let go, I am now free from all 'that', 
                  out with the old, not needed, of no use, release. Make your 
                  own list to suit your own temperament. The important thing is 
                  to stay with the breath - dont' get caught in thinking - and 
                  to do it often. 
                
                A 
                  noisy handle: 
                
                • 
                  As an alternative to counting the breath you can use the sound 
                  of the breath. If you listen you can imagine that it sounds 
                  like 'sah' on the in-breath and 'hah' on the out-breath. You 
                  can do this silently or make some noise. Breathing in through 
                  the nose, allowing the air to vibrate - saaaaH. 
                
                Breath 
                  out through the mouth (or nose) haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. This 
                  can give a bit of a 'handle' on the breath which makes it a 
                  bit easier to concentrate on, to stay with. 
                
                • 
                  This is a nice meditation to do together as a group. It is good 
                  to have a leader who sets the pace. Synchronise your breaths 
                  with the noise - big breath in - - - - and - long, open-mouthed 
                  breath out: haaaaaaaaaaaaaa. Do this for maybe five minutes 
                  or more. This is really being alive together. Of the four elements 
                  the air is one that we truely do share. It is funny to think 
                  that as we breathe in we are literally inhaling each others 
                  old air - a burden shared is a trouble halved. 
                   
                   
                   
                
                
                
                3. 
                  Loving-Kindness Meditation ...http://www.buddhamind.info/ 
                
                * 
                  http://www.buddhamind.info/leftside/lifestyl/medi/breath.htm 
                
                Metta, 
                  like many Pali words, has a range of meanings: loving-kindness, 
                  friendliness, goodwill, benevolence, fellowship, amity, concord, 
                  inoffensiveness and nonviolence - and lots more. It is commonly 
                  translated as loving-kindness and is concerned with the well 
                  being of all living beings. It is a universal, unselfish and 
                  all-embracing love. 
                
                All 
                  living things respond positively to love and kindness. Is this 
                  true? Consider plants - as being fairly simple living things. 
                  On a physical level they can easily be seen as healthier when 
                  they get lots of sunshine and are well watered and fed. One 
                  even reads of them responding on an emotional level. This is 
                  not so easy to prove. If you have ever had a pet; how does it 
                  respond to being kicked and yelled at? 
                
                • 
                  Good health results from care and kindness and bad health results 
                  from indifference and abuse. I hopefully imagine that you agree 
                  with this. So, if pets and plants like love and kindness and 
                  care and attention then why should we be different? Truth is 
                  we aren't, but it often seems as if we are a bit short changed 
                  in the loving-kindness department. What to do? 
                
                To 
                  start with: 
                
                be 
                  clear in your mind of the bad results of anger, hatred, resentment, 
                  indignation, and so forth. 
                be 
                  clear in your mind of the good results of kindness, affection, 
                  tolerance, friendliness, good will, etc. 
                
                This 
                  is not to expect that you will have none of the qualities of 
                  the first list and all of those in the second list - just that 
                  you see the positive value in loving-kindness. 
                
                Aims: 
                
                There 
                  are two areas the developing of metta aims at: external and 
                  internal. 
                
                • 
                  External: the aim is to live in the world as harmlessly as possible, 
                  both in relation to living and non-living entities. This is 
                  to be both ecologically conscious and socially sensitive. It 
                  includes things like; being frugal (not using more than one 
                  needs, or wasting what one has), being moderate in one's lifestyle 
                  (not living excessively in any way), being modest, guarding 
                  one's speech, respecting the property and general situation 
                  of others, offering help where one can, being generous, performing 
                  one's duties well, etc. All of this is very high-minded and 
                  saintly and may seem to be beyond your abilities but, we all 
                  have some goodness as part of our character and the aims suggested 
                  here are a reference point. We always begin from where we are 
                  and having a clear aim tends to result in a clear journey. 
                
                • 
                  Internal: the aim is very simple; to have an unselfish mind 
                  / heart. The combination of a concentrated mind and a heart 
                  free from hatred, etc. constitutes a state of liberation - enlightenment 
                  - freedom from suffering. OK! 
                
                Monks, 
                  for one who practises metta, eleven benefits can be expected. 
                  Which eleven? 
                One 
                  sleeps easily  ~  wakes easily  ~  dreams 
                  no evil dreams  ~  is dear to human beings  ~  
                  dear to non-human beings  ~  the devas (forces of 
                  goodness) protect one  ~  neither fire, poison, nor 
                  weapons can harm one  ~  one's mind concentrates easily  
                  ~  one's complexion is bright  ~  one dies unconfused 
                  and - if penetrating no higher  ~  one is born in 
                  the Brahma worlds.   [AN: XI.16] 
                
                Selfishness 
                  is the primary target of the Buddha's teaching. 
                
                Practising 
                  metta - universal, all-embracing love - is a way to soften our 
                  attachment to this self-ishness. The first place to start is 
                  with oneself. That's you! This may seem curiously selfish but 
                  if we are aiming to radiate this quality throughout the universe 
                  we need to do some work on the 'transmitter' first. As our 'signal' 
                  gets stronger we can extend our energies outward. 
                
                • 
                  So, the first thing is to get a bit of love going locally - 
                  in your heart. A common obstacle is a sense of unworthiness. 
                  Self disparagement, self criticism and judgment, a sense of 
                  low self esteem - all these seem to be common attitudes. A simple 
                  test of where you are at with this: Sit in meditation, bring 
                  the concept of metta into the mind and heart, bring one's awareness 
                  to one's own being then use the words 'I love you' directed 
                  at you. Repeat this over and over for several minutes. What 
                  is the resultant feeling? Is it of being cared for and loved? 
                  Or of discomfort - even squeamishness? This will give you some 
                  idea of what state the 'transmitter' is in. 
                
                • 
                  I will assume that there are a few 'dodgy diodes' and that you 
                  wish to undertake repairs. What really needs establishing very 
                  firmly is, that you are basically OK. Not perfect perhaps but 
                  there is enough goodness to be getting on with. Contemplate 
                  the goodness in your life - allow that there is some. Don't 
                  set the standard too high; so things like feeding the neighbours 
                  cat, lending someone your pencil, a friendly greeting - these 
                  are all good things - give them value as such. It is so important 
                  to have an appreciation your goodness, what you already have 
                  - there must be a foundation on which to build. Try making a 
                  list. Get the help of a friend to make a list. You can do this 
                  as a mutual metta exercise. 
                
                • 
                  As a way of getting in touch with the general feeling of love 
                  and kindness you can develop the image of a friend, a loved 
                  one, a family member who you have a positive feeling toward. 
                  Someone who has offered you some love and kindness in the past. 
                  There is always someone. Again, don't set the standard too high. 
                  Just pick the best you have. Sit in meditation and bring their 
                  image into your heart. Perhaps remember a situation that was 
                  particularly loving. Then, let go of the image and try to just 
                  experience the feeling in the heart that comes with such an 
                  exercise. Practice this often and really get to know the feeling. 
                  Make this feeling so familiar that it is easy to find - like 
                  touching your nose in the dark. You know where your nose is 
                  because you have referred to it a lot over the years. Do the 
                  same with this feeling of love in the heart. 
                
                • 
                  You can use other symbols that might come to mind. These can 
                  be visual - like a photograph or a gift you have received; or 
                  a piece of music or a tape of a friends voice - whatever helps 
                  you to get in touch with the feeling of love and kindness in 
                  your heart. Remember that it is the feeling that we are trying 
                  to cultivate here and what stimulates it is not so important, 
                  and do appreciate the difference between the feeling and the 
                  object. You need to be able to turn to the feeling independent 
                  of any-thing, any-place, any-time. 
                
                • 
                  You could experiment with various word combinations. A typical 
                  set is: "May I be well, may I be happy, may I be free from 
                  suffering." Repeat this over and over in the heart. You 
                  can do this for 30 seconds while you wait for something. Ten 
                  times 30 seconds = five minutes the heart is being healed with 
                  metta. The trick is remembering to turn to this practice. Often. 
                   
                   
                   
                
                
                
                4. 
                  A Loving Kindness Meditation ...from 
                  Kusala's Morning Practice 
                
                * 
                  http://kusala.urbandharma.org/revkus/morning.html 
                
                (Introduction) 
                
                May 
                  I be...... 
                
                May 
                  my teachers and all teachers of the Truth be...... 
                
                May 
                  my parents, brothers and sisters, friends and relatives be...... 
                
                From 
                  the highest realm of existence to the lowest, may all beings 
                  arisen in these realms, with form and without, with perception 
                  and without, with consciousness and without, may they be...... 
                
                (Repeat 
                  below after each introduction.) 
                
                ......happy, 
                  peaceful and free from suffering. 
                May 
                  no harm come to me/them. 
                May 
                  no difficulties come to me/them. 
                May 
                  no problems come to me/them. 
                May 
                  I/they always find fulfillment. 
                
                May 
                  I/they also have patience, courage, understanding, and determination, 
                  to meet and overcome, the inevitable difficulties, problems, 
                  and failures in life. 
                
                ************* 
                
                By 
                  the power of Truth found in the Buddha Dharma, may all my misfortunes 
                  due to stars, demons, harmful spirits, and ominous planets, 
                  be prevented and destroyed. May the rain fall in due time. May 
                  there be a rich harvest. May the world be prosperous. May the 
                  governments by righteous. 
                
                By 
                  the power of all the fully-awakened Buddhas, by the power of 
                  all the fully-awakened Pacceka-Buddhas, by the power of all 
                  the fully-awakened Arahants, by the power of all the fully-awakened 
                  Bodhisattvas, may I be secure and protected in every way. 
                   
                   
                   
                
                
                
                5. 
                  Pay Attention, for Goodness' Sake: Practicing the Perfections 
                  of the Heart-The Buddhist Path of Kindness ...by Sylvia, 
                  Ph.D. Boorstein 
                
                * 
                  http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0345448103/wwwkusalaorg-20/ 
                
                From 
                  Publishers Weekly 
                
                Like 
                  that of fellow insight meditation teacher Jack Kornfield, Boorstein's 
                  teaching and writing style is like chocolate: what she has to 
                  say goes down easily and smoothly, and you want a whole lot 
                  more of it. The author of That's Funny, You Don't Look Buddhist 
                  and other books uses clear and simple terms, apt examples drawn 
                  from daily life and a liberal lacing of humor to sweeten the 
                  lessons. Through traditional Buddhist story and contemporary 
                  personal anecdote, practical meditation techniques and a nifty 
                  periodic table of virtue that links qualities and practices, 
                  she engagingly and clearly lays out the Buddha's teaching of 
                  the 10 Paramitas, or perfections of the heart. Her wonderfully 
                  self-deprecating teaching tales heighten her point that enlightenment 
                  and compassion are always conditions to be realized over and 
                  over rather than fixed states enjoyed by the advanced practitioner. 
                  Boorstein's fresh interpretations of the Buddha's teachings 
                  of renunciation, energy, patience and other heart-perfections 
                  make them desirable and, more importantly, highly doable. Showing 
                  that the Buddha's Four Noble Truths are a path of practice rather 
                  than a set of cognitions, this book of training in the everyday 
                  cultivation of virtue is a wonderful complement to books that 
                  train the mind through meditation. Even better than chocolate, 
                  this book can be savored again and again. 
                
                Reviewer: 
                  A reader- This is the first book I've ever read by Sylvia 
                  Boorstein, but I doubt it will be the last. In Pay Attention, 
                  Boorstein teaches us about the ten Paramitas, or the pefections 
                  of the heart. She uses parables and stories from her own life 
                  to teach us what the paramitas are about as well as how they 
                  are beneficial to us if we put them into practice. She's very 
                  open, honest, and kind and writes the book as if you're sitting 
                  right there next to her and she's having a conversation with 
                  you. She doesn't make anything confusing or get too wordy like 
                  many Buddhist authors of today do.. she just tells us what we 
                  need to know and offers a few short stories to help get the 
                  point across. I personally found this book to be one of the 
                  best additions to my spiritual library in quite a while. If 
                  you're looking for a good book on Buddhism, spirituality, or 
                  just something to lift you up and make you feel better as well 
                  as the people around you feel better, I would definitely recommend 
                  this book.  
                
                Reviewer: 
                  Roger E. Herman from Greensboro, NC USA- In all fairness 
                  to my readers, I must begin this review by telling you that 
                  I typically review business books. This is not a business book. 
                  I'm not sure how I got it, but somehow this unusual (for me) 
                  book appeared on my shelf of books to review. I took it along 
                  on a business trip, more out of curiosity and whimsy than a 
                  particular interest in actually reading the book. On the airplane, 
                  for some reason, I decided to skim through "Pay Attention, 
                  for Goodness Sake" instead of reading a business book I'd 
                  also brought along.  
                
                This 
                  read was refreshing. Good word. It was a refreshing change of 
                  pace from my usual fare. But, it was also re-freshing, if I 
                  may hyphenate for emphasis. Sylvia Boorstein, both a Jew and 
                  a Bhuddist, has written a number of books. Thought I haven't 
                  read them, I suspect, like this one, they teach in a conversational, 
                  comfortable way. I learned and found some interesting comfort 
                  as I read through these pages, like having an interesting discussion 
                  with someone who knows more than you do. You want to listen. 
                  As I turned page to page, I found myself held to the book. I 
                  wanted to read a little more and a little more.  
                
                This 
                  is a thoughtful book, describing ten "paramitas" or 
                  perfections. The organization and flow of the book makes it 
                  easy to grasp the author's message and organize it in your own 
                  mind. The introduction explains the concepts and their application. 
                  Each "perfection" or practices is presented in its 
                  own chapter: Generosity, Morality, Renunciation, Wisdom, Energy, 
                  Patience, Truthfulness, Determination, Lovingkindness, and Equanimity. 
                  I would describe the work as an instructional guide that inspires 
                  the reader to think . . . no, to ponder.  
                
                This 
                  is not a business book in the customary classification of books, 
                  but I'd certainly recommend it for current and aspiring business 
                  leaders. We all need to pay attention more than we are; we miss 
                  so much in today's rush-rush world. Take time to reflect, to 
                  ponder. Refresh yourself with this book. 
                   
                   
                   
                
                
                
                6. 
                  The Birmingham Buddhist Vihara 
                
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                  http://web.ukonline.co.uk/buddhism/vihara.htm 
                
                PAGODA 
                  & VIHARA  
                
                Osler 
                  Stret, Ladywood, Birmingham B16 9EU, United Kingdom 
                Phone: 
                  0121 454 6591/ 455 0650;  
                Fax: 
                  0121 454 0374;  
                E-Mail: 
                  dhamma@globalnet.co.uk 
                
                HISTORY 
                   
                
                The 
                  Birmingham Buddhist Vihara was originally founded by the Karma 
                  Kagyu Trust in 1981, but it was transferred to the Birmingham 
                  Buddhist Trust in 1982. It is supported mostly by the Burmese 
                  community and local native-born Buddhists. The Vihara itself 
                  is used mainly by local people. 
                
                THE 
                  SPIRITUAL DIRECTOR 
                
                The 
                  Venerable Dr. Rewata Dhamma, a senior Burmese 
                  monk, is the spiritual director and has been traching in England 
                  and in the West since 1975. He has a Ph.D. in the Philosophy 
                  and Phychology of Buddhism and has published authoritative texts 
                  on the subject. Currently, he is the spiritual director of other 
                  centres in Britain and Europe. He presently conducts yearly 
                  courses of meditation in England, Scotland, Holland, Belgium, 
                  Germany, France, Czech Republic and Switzerland. 
                
                FACILITIES 
                   
                
                Main 
                  Shrine Room 
                
                Meditation, 
                  ceremonies and discourses are held in the shrine room which 
                  is in the Burmese style with a magnificent golden throne and 
                  marble statue of the Buddha. 
                
                Library 
                   
                
                A 
                  lending library is situated in the front room where books, mostly 
                  of an introductory type, are available to members. There is 
                  a reference library in an upstairs shrine room which again is 
                  open to members and contains scriptural text-books which are 
                  strictly reference and not for lending. 
                
                Bookstall 
                   
                
                Next 
                  to the library is a small book stall which carries basic texts. 
                  The librarian is happy to order books if needed. 
                
                Newsletter 
                   
                
                A 
                  newsletter is issued quarterly, giving information of past nad 
                  future activities. Those wishing to receive a copy are asked 
                  to contribute towards its cost by donation. If you wish to be 
                  included on our mailing list, please make sure the Vihara has 
                  your name and address. 
                
                Weekly 
                  Activites  
                
                Mondays 
                  7:30 pm --- Simple meditation instruction for beginners followed 
                  by a meditation session, discourse and discussion, often by 
                  a resident monk. 
                
                Courses 
                  in Meditation  
                
                Weekend 
                  Courses --- Usually held every second weekend of the month, 
                  starting Friday evening at 8:00 p.m. and finishing Sunday afternoon 
                  around 4:00 p.m. 
                
                Ten-day 
                  Courses --- Usually held twice a year at Easter and August. 
                
                The 
                  Vihara is opne to meditators at virtually all times. If you 
                  wish to visit, please phone to make sure someone is available 
                  to open the door. 
                
                Courses 
                  in Buddhism  
                
                There 
                  are eight week courses in Buddhism for those who want to know 
                  about Buddhism. This course consists of eight Wednesday evening 
                  sessions as well as a fully day of practical experience in meditation. 
                  In this course various schools and traditions will be introduced 
                  and examined including Theravada, Tibetan and Zen. The course 
                  is usually held twice a year. 
                
                CUSTOMS 
                  AND PRACTICES  
                
                The 
                  Vihara 
                
                A 
                  Vihara is a dwelling place for monks and because of the life 
                  a monk tries to lead, like any other establishment it has its 
                  in house rules. Really, it is just a matter of respecting the 
                  rules and styles of life of the monks which the Buddha himself 
                  established. Please dress fully, talk quitely and move calmly. 
                
                Our 
                  Monks  
                
                Monks 
                  are addressed as Bhante (pronounced bhantay), it is equivalent 
                  to Venerable Sir. It is not usual for monks in the East to shake 
                  hands. The rule is that monks do not touch women and nuns do 
                  no touch men. The manner of greeting is usually Anjali, which 
                  is to put two hands together in greeting, but it is not necessary. 
                
                In 
                  the Shrine Room  
                
                We 
                  keep to the Eastern custom of taking our shoes off, since we 
                  sit on the floor; we try to keep an attitude of calm and quiet. 
                  This doesn't stop us from having a lively discussion!; we usualy 
                  sit on a cushion on the floor, but those with physical problems 
                  can use a chair; it is considered disrespectful to point your 
                  feet towards the shrine or another meditator. 
                
                The 
                  Statue of Buddha  
                
                The 
                  sitting posture of our statue (Rupa) is common in the East and 
                  is called the Bhumisparsa Mudra. It symbolises the moment just 
                  after the Buddha's enlightenment, when he touched the Earth 
                  as witness to his overcoming illusion, delusion and ignorance. 
                  Mara; the other posture more commonly known in the West, is 
                  the meditation posture, with hands overlapped on top of a lotus 
                  position, called the Padmasana Mudra. 
                
                Offering 
                   
                
                There 
                  are three offerings (Puja), usually made to the shrine: 
                
                • 
                  Flowers, which symbolise the passing nature of our lives 
                  just as fresh bloom fades 
                Candles, 
                  whose light symbolises the Enlightenment 
                Incense, 
                  which symbolises the effects of good deeds that spread in all 
                  directions as does the fragrance of incense.  
                
                Bowing 
                   
                
                Many 
                  Buddhists practice bowing: out of reverence and gratitude to 
                  the Buddhas as their teachers; out of reverance and gratitude 
                  for the Teaching itself, the Dhamma; out of reverence and gratitude 
                  to the Community to the Noble Ones, the Ariyas including the 
                  Arahats and Buddhas; out of reverence to the latent Enlightenment 
                  in all beings. This is by no means a compulsory practice, but 
                  for those who wish to do so, the traditional way is to kneel 
                  with both hands joined (a way of centring heart and  
                
                Chanting 
                   
                
                This 
                  isn't praying, but calling to mind the words of the Buddha. 
                  There are other customs and practices. Please don't be too embarassed 
                  to ask. You are always welcome to visit the monastry to talk 
                  about Buddhism or to meditate. But please always ring before 
                  hand to make sure someone will be there to greet you. There 
                  is, of course, much more to cover, but hopefully this is whetted 
                  your appetite to read one or more of the books listed below. 
                
                Beginner's 
                  Booklist  
                1. 
                  The Buddha's Ancient Path, Piyadassi Thera, Buddhist 
                  Publication Society 
                
                • 
                  An easy to read first introduction.  
                
                2. 
                  What the Buddha Taught, W. Rahula, Gordon Fraser 
                
                • 
                  A good reference book, very readable.  
                
                3. 
                  The Experience of Insight, J Golstein, Unity Press 
                
                • 
                  Buddhism from a meditator's point of view.  
                
                4. 
                  The Heart of Buddhist Meditation, Nyanaponika Thera, 
                  Rider 
                
                • 
                  A classic on the subject of meditation.  
                
                5. 
                  A Short History of Buddhism, E. Conze, George Allen 
                  & Unwin 
                
                • 
                  A short interesting account of how Buddhism grew.  
                
                6. 
                  The Wheel Publications (Buddhist Publication Society).  
                
                Pamphlets 
                  on various subjects:- 
                
                • 
                  Buddhism in a Nutshell  
                • 
                  Buddha the Healer  
                • 
                  The Four Noble Truths  
                • 
                  Buddhism and Peace  
                • 
                  Lay Buddhist Practice  
                   
                   
                
                
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